heyilan

I am haunted by humans

elana ☆ she/her

homosexual-having-tea

You ever think about how unified humanity is by just everyday experiences? Tudor peasants had hangnails, nobles in the Qin dynasty had favorite foods, workers in the 1700s liked seeing flowers growing in pavement cracks, a cook in medieval Iran teared up cutting onions, a mom in 1300 told her son not to get grass stains on his clothes, some girl in the past loved staying up late to see the sun rise.

quecksilvereyes

there are scriptures all over the world painstakingly crafted hundreds of years ago with paw prints and spelling mistakes or drawings covering up mistakes. a bunch of teenage girls 2000 years ago gathered to walk around their hometown, getting fast food and laughing with their friends. two friends shared blankets before people lived in houses. a mother ran a fine comb through her child’s hair and told it to stop squirming sometime in the 1000s. there are covered up sewing mistakes in couture dresses from the 1800s, some poor roman burnt their food so well past recognition that they just buried the entire pot. there are broken dishes hidden in gardens of people no one even remembers anymore

theropoda

children eleven thousand years ago enjoyed jumping around in puddles made from the footprints of a giant sloth. children loved muddy puddles so long ago there were still megafauna alive

captainlordauditor

There’s a record of an emperor of Japan in the 9th century talking about his cat - how pretty it is, and how it stalks birds and curls up in a circle and meows mournfully for company and escaped its collar. All completely normal ordinary cat things. And then it ends with him saying “it is superior to all other cats”. I am delighted to be united across 1200 years with this fellow cat owner with exactly the same feelings about his cat that I have about mine.

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sufficientlylargen

God I hate these fucking floating monoliths. They always go, like, 10mph below the speed limit and if you try to pass them they just fucking distort reality around them until you're back behind them again. One of them cut me off on the highway once and when I honked it banished me to a hoary netherworld where I wandered, lost and alone, for untold centuries, trapped in the liminal space between what could have been and what never was, black stars dotting the bright infinity yawning out around me as I drove out of thought and time, through endless ruined cities and blighted lands unmarked by the sun's cold rays, and when I finally got out I was more than 20m late for my dentist appointment and they had to reschedule me.

l0stvegas

Hey? Hey holy shit

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bakwaaas

‘your parents just want what’s best for you’ that is objectively not true for a lot of people, sometimes they want what’s best for them or what looks the best to other people, or what they think is best for you is based on outdated, backwards and messed up values & beliefs. even if their intentions aren’t bad doesn’t mean they even remotely know what’s good for you

teaboot

the road to hell is paved with "What's best for you"

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macklesufficient

bad news everyone: i have a take

macklesufficient

the loneliness epidemic/gen z dead-eyed stare/poor socialization of younger generations and increasing rudeness of older ones is kinda an internet thing and kinda a pandemic thing but it is also the well-meaning chickens of the Stranger Danger movement coming home to roost

macklesufficient

something something everybody thinks violent crime is at a high when it’s at a 30 year low, something something training your children to see everyone outside of their family as a threat until you yourself believe it, something something. again this was well-intentioned, people want their kids to be safe, but when you’ve heard “dont talk to strangers” all your life it’s hard to kill that instinct as an adult

macklesufficient

but yeah if you’re an early 20-something person, it might be helpful to be directly told this: talk to strangers. that rule only applied when you were a child. you not only should but must talk to strangers

mindfulwrath

No joke, one of the things that helped me get over my fear of talking to strangers was this series of videos of a young British lad unicycling around the world.

He just... asks strangers for help. Everywhere. And everywhere, strangers help him. Sometimes strangers just roll up and give him stuff, like fresh produce from their gardens, or a cold bottle of water. Strangers let him camp in their yard (yes, even in the U.S., I was shocked, too), or sometimes they'll say you're not sleeping outside when I have a perfectly good guest room and invite him in for a hot meal and a warm bed with zero strings attached. Strangers stop and chat with him even when they have no language in common. The only strangers who were genuinely threatening to him were--no surprises here--cops.

And I do take all this with a grain of salt, because he's a thin, able-bodied, neurotypical (or at least neurotypical-presenting) white man, so the deck is stacked in his favor.

But I also truly believe that the overwhelming majority of people, all over the world, are chill. Are curious. Are happy to help. Because all that is baked into the human condition.

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persianmom-deactivated20251026

agonizing over all the time you wasted or lost is useless. it’s gone now. you survived in the only way you knew how. doesn’t your survival deserve some recognition too?

persianmom-deactivated20251026

like toni morrison said, “sometimes you don't survive whole, you just survive in part. but the grandeur of life is that attempt. it’s not about that solution. it is about being as fearless as one can, and behaving as beautifully as one can, under completely impossible circumstances.”

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caseyscraftycorner

man i cannot believe that Cheney died the same day that Zohran Mamdani got elected mayor of nyc

caseyscraftycorner

Dick Cheney died and the democrats genuinely fucking swept this whole off-year election

nature is healing, etc

caseyscraftycorner

okay for real though:

  • maine rejected a heinous voting restricting law & passed a red flag gun control law
  • colorado passed a tax on people who earn more than $300,000 a year, which will be used to fund food assistance programs
  • california passed its redistricting proposition, which heavily favors dems in a direct attempt to counter Republican gerrymandering on the national scale, in a landslide vote
  • in viginia, the state delegation went from 51-49 (D-R) to 63-37 (D-R), and dems also won the races for Governor, Lieutenant Governor, and Attorney General
  • and, again, Mamdani defeated Cuomo in the race for Mayor of NYC

like, holy fuck

caseyscraftycorner

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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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remnantglow

classic scifi novels by men r always like. page 1 here's a cool scifi idea i had. page 2 i hate women so much it's unreal

remnantglow

#:| #there are reasons why i stopped reading scifi in high schoolALT
#unfortunately why you won't catch me descending farther into #the genre than star wars #everyone's like read this and is just misogyny in space #wow so cool i have that at homeALT
#lit #yikes. glad i never read scifi novelsALT

guys if one more person leaves a tag like this on my post im gonna lose my mind. There Are Science Fiction Authors Who Are Not Misogynistic Men

remnantglow

ok i've gotten one too many 'this is why i don't read sci-fi' comments so here's a rec list for the people convinced all science fiction is bad and misogynistic (with something for everyone, hopefully!):

(also, btw, the book links are to the Storygraph, which includes content warnings for each one!)

this list is long enough, but have some more authors (who are not cis men) also worth checking out: rivers solomon, yoon ha lee, charlie jane anders, aliette de bodard, xiran jay zhao, mary robinette kowal, corinne duyvis

and finally, not all older/classic scifi is written by crusty old white guys who hate women!!! some iconic authors i'd particularly recommend looking into are ursula k. le guin, octavia e. butler, samuel r. delany and vonda n. mcintyre 🥰

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